I’m No Decorator

I began writing this post with the intention of explaining why and when someone should hire an interior designer (and so help me God, I will write it!).  It struck me, however, that most people in the general populace really don’t understand what interior design is or what exactly interior designers do.  We are perpetually downgraded with the moniker of decorator, and some people (even some in this field!) think that’s A-okay.  I do not.  There are many misconceptions and bad information flying around out there.

Here are some of the things I have heard after telling people I’m an interior designer, as well as statements I’ve heard made about interior designers:

“That’s cool.  Do you get to, like, draw a lot?”

“I always wanted to do that!”

“You mean, you’re a decorator?”

“Oh, an inferior desecrator!”  (contractors are particularly fond of that one)

“Oh!  You need to watch HGTV!”

“Interior design?  That’s for faggots and cheerleaders.” (seriously, someone actually said that to me)

“What’s your signature style?  Do you like shabby chic?”

“I just LOVE interior design!  It’s a hobby of mine.”

“Don’t you just love shopping all day?!”

“Oh, so you mean you pick out colors for people?”

“You tell people what kind of furniture to buy?”

“So let me ask you a question.  Is it still in style to use carpeted toilet seat lid covers?  Do people still do that?”

“Why do you have to do drawings for that?”

“Wow, you know how to measure a room?  And you have your own tape measure too?”

“You should see my house.  I built all the cabinets myself.”

“I’m going to buy all my own fabric from (insert fabric retailer here) myself, but I’ll show them to you and you just let me know if they’re okay.”

“I studied that in school, but when I realized how much paperwork was involved I decided to become a personal trainer instead.”

“With the existence of Pottery Barn, there is no excuse for anyone to live in an ugly house anymore.”

Allow me a moment to muster up my dignity. (Takes deep breath, smoothes shirt, has a glass of water…)

You can see I have my work cut out for me. 

When I discovered the field of interior design in college, there were many aspects of design that appealed to me and ultimately lead to my decision to make it my life’s pursuit.

Interior design combines the technical, analytical, and scientific skills and knowledge of architecture with creativity, art, and the pursuit of beauty.  It’s a practical and useful art form, and it’s also a science.  It works in tandem with the grand “macro” scale of architecture by focusing on the “micro” details of human scale and how actual human beings relate to and function within their built environment.  Every project, every space, every person using a space is different, so every project is a unique three-dimensional puzzle with many right answers and very few absolutes.  Good design makes people’s lives better, whether it’s furniture design, product design, architecture, landscape design, urban planning and design, or interior design which draws from all of these disciplines to create unified, holistic environments that inspire, comfort, nurture, heal, uplift and delight people.  It is beyond simply decorating.

First of all, I learned the science of interior design in college.  Space planning, architectural drafting, the history of furniture and art and architectural design movements, color theory, lighting, how things are built and made, the elements and principles of design that are universal to all things that human beings create, and textiles.  The Americans with Disabilities Act (which celebrates its 20th anniversary today) had just been passed while I was in design school, so we learned how to incorporate universal design and accessibility for all into every space we designed, and how the structure of the human body dictates how buildings get built, furniture designed, and tools made.  We learned that there is power in the built environment: the power to improve and enhance peoples’ lives as well as the power to make it difficult, unsympathetic, and a misery for people if spaces are not designed well. 

Beyond school, I worked for experienced licensed professionals until I was eligible to take the qualifying exam (called the NCIDQ) and apply for my own license.  It was a grueling, difficult, and extremely rewarding mark of achievement when I finally passed that exam, and as a regulated professional I take continuing education classes on an ongoing basis to stay current with this ever-changing industry.  I take the professional part of my profession very seriously, and consumers of design services should care whether the designers they hire have the education and credentialing to go along with their style-sense.  It can be the difference between a snake-oil salesman and a doctor.

So, in a very practical, boots-on-the-ground kind of way, what does this all mean?

Diagnose and analyze, examine and research, think critically and act creatively, and execute, all the while making the process for the client smooth, as hassle-free as possible, and thrilled with the results.

Diagnose and Analyze

In a nutshell: listening.  I listen to the needs and desires of my clients.  Reading between the lines and hearing the things that get left unsaid are important components of listening too.  Designers have to “condense fact from the vapor of nuance.” (Thank you, Neal Stephenson, author of Snow Crash)

Examine and Research

Searching for products that fit the needs of the people that will use them, reviewing case studies, code compliance, watching, learning, sourcing, and investigating.  The industry has (finally!) evolved to incorporate sustainability into this process as well. 

Thinking Critically and Acting Creatively

This is a big one.  This is where hands and pencils meet paper, and drawing things with precision and technical skill will reveal whether an idea in my head will actually work in real life.  It’s about looking for new ways to solve problems, and being open to new ideas.  It’s about critically thinking about how to solve a problem and projecting out the possible consequences of every design choice I make to make sure that potential hiccups are headed off at the pass.

Execute

Yes, there is a lot of paperwork involved in what I do.  I take copious notes.  Specifying products requires writing down every single detail that goes into a completed item and how it integrates with the whole design, noting every person I speak to in the supply chain, and following up regularly to make sure critical steps aren’t missed and that everyone responsible for their portion of the puzzle does what they’re supposed to do when they’re supposed to do it.  Execution is the leadership position that coordinates all the players on a project to work together as a team, and solves problems when things go wrong.  Organizational skills are imperative, and people in the building trades appreciate it.

Does any of this process involve decorating?  Yes, of course it does, and if I’ve done my job as a designer well, beauty is a natural result.  Decorating is certainly fun.  It’s the icing on the cake, but it’s not the cake itself, and if the cake itself is no good, then the best looking icing in the world isn’t going to make it good.  Do I sometimes get asked to select paint colors and provide decorating services only?  Yes, occasionally, and that’s okay- I like the decorating aspect of design too, just don’t call me a decorator.

DIY Gone Wrong

A couple of weeks ago as I was describing my own Do-It-Yourself tile project, I mentioned that I was quite familiar with “DIY-Gone-Wrong.”  While I love starting from scratch with new construction projects, much of interior design work involves renovations and remodeling, and uncovering or correcting mistakes that well-meaning homeowners have made.   I made a list so that I could share with you exactly what I mean.  This is by no means an exhaustive list, but these are all things that I have come across in my interior design practice that have been done by “previous owners” that decided to take matters into their own hands.

  1. Hot and cold water taps plumbed backwards (hot is cold, cold is hot).
  2. No wall scribes.  A scribe is that little filler strip of wood between your cabinet and a wall.  Why is this important?  One can never assume a wall is straight (usually they are not, especially in older homes).  Without a scribe, cabinet doors may not be able to open to a full 90 degrees, drawers may not be able to open 100%, and/or there will be an unsightly and uneven gap between the wall and cabinet.
  3. Building walls that terminate at the middle of a window. (I swear I have actually seen this, and it is truly a construction sin.)
  4. Acoustical ceiling tile in a house EVER.  (Usually whatever the acoustical tile is concealing is scarier than the tile, but that band aid has to come off sometime!)
  5. Wallpapering the electrical outlets.  Granted, this is an aesthetic choice, but it’s really tacky.
  6. Setting your recessed lights inside the radius of a ceiling fan.  It creates a strobe light effect when the fan is running and the lights are on.
  7. Using the same granite (especially gray sardo) throughout an entire house.
  8. Installing toilets before flooring.  This is a big, bad No-No!  Toilets are like snowflakes, no two have the same exact footprint, so if you ever need to change your toilet but the flooring came after, then you will be replacing the flooring too. Cha-ching.
  9. Installing bathroom vanity mirrors too high so that all you can see is from your nose up.
  10. Painting over tile (or stone)- and by this I mean actual paint, not the re-porcelain glazing treatments that can be done to refurbish bathtubs and tiled tub walls; that usually works pretty good, though I will warn you: it only looks good in white, and it doesn’t last forever.  It will start peeling after a few years and have to be done again.
  11. Not using joint spacers when setting tile.
  12. Caulking a gap bigger than 3/8 of an inch (and even 3/8 is pushing it), or worse: not caulking gaps at all.
  13. Lumpy drywall patching, with the drywall tape edges exposed, and trying to patch a popcorn ceiling yourself. (Just forget about it and call a drywall guy for popcorn patching, or any type of textured wall patching.  You will be so glad you did.)
  14. Using wall-to-wall carpet as a wall covering or over woodwork. (Your home is not a roller-skating rink or a cat scratching post.)  Again this is an aesthetic choice, but it’s usually done because the surface underneath is terrible and can only be saved by covering it with something thick and forgiving.
  15. Installing lever door handles upside down, so that to open the door you must pull the handle up instead of pushing it down.

Do any of these conditions sound familiar?  Some of the things on my list are aesthetic problems that may scream “amateur”, but can be corrected relatively easily.  However, some of these issues can be very costly to fix and could affect the perceived value of your house.   I’m all for the empowerment of individuals to take care of themselves and their homes, but some projects are best left to the professionals. 

These are the types of things that a good interior designer can help you navigate as you renovate your space.  Even if your budget will only allow for a consultation, it’s well worth it, and could save you money, headaches, and sleepless nights.

The Confluence of Cork and Plastic

I love opening a new bottle of wine.  In particular, I appreciate now more than ever, wine bottles corked with actual cork.  Cork, that fabulous stuff that’s peeled from the outer layers of the cork oak tree, is so ubiquitous in our world that it’s actually become a verb.  Besides the actual wine, the cork stopper is a vital part of the wine experience.  I love how it’s kind of springy and soft, and the bottom end of it becomes stained with and smells like the wine you’re about to drink.  The printed name or picture of the vineyard on the cork makes it looks old and worn, like a treasured object from the past.

A few years ago, I had my first rude awakening that something was amiss in the wine industry.  I unwrapped a bottle of wine and saw…..plastic; a plastic stopper masquerading as a cork!  I thought, Huh!  What is this?  I thought I bought a nice bottle of wine.  And more and more, many of the bottles of wine I open have these horrible plastic stoppers.  I’ve since learned a few things about cork and why the wine industry is moving away from cork, and mostly it’s because the plastic stoppers are cheaper.  And also some blah blah blah excuse about the remote possibility that the cork stopper has the potential to taint the wine with an unwanted funky smell and taste.  I’m also seeing more and more wine bottles with screw-caps.  Screw-caps?!  Ugh, really?

Why is the wine industry growing so anti-cork?  No matter what kind of marketing blitz I’m faced with, I still associate screw-cap wine with the horrible swill we consumed in high school college, even if the wine tastes fine.

Perhaps it’s a generational thing.  It’s all relative, and it’s all about what you were exposed to from a young age.  I’ve come across many people in the course of my design work that harbor an unfair bias against furniture made of plastic.  They think it’s cheap, cheesy and low-quality.  Nevermind the many big name designers that created fantastic and well-made stuff out of plastic (like Verner Panton and Phillippe Starck to name a couple), some with price tags to curl your hair.

        

“But it’s just plastic.”

Just plastic indeed.

Well, my friends, plastic just may prove to be one of the most expensive materials out there from here on in, and I’m not talking about money.  Plastic, as we all know (or should know) is petroleum-based. 

Now, don’t get me wrong.  I love plastic.  Plastic is a wonderful thing.  Every time I drop something on the floor, I do a little happy dance for plastic.  As I said before, there are beautiful, well-constructed pieces of furniture made of plastics that will, literally, last forever, and there are many plastics that can be recycled.  Our modern lives couldn’t exist without plastic.  I’ve just had enough of cheap, single-use, non-recyclable plastic.  Just take a look at the oil gushing into the Gulf of Mexico, and the plastic soup found in the Pacific Garbage Patch, the Atlantic Garbage Patch, and the stomachs of seabirds.  Mmmmmm, so many plastic bottle stoppers, plastic shopping bags, plastic wrap, cheap crappy toys….I swear if my pharmacist gives me one more plastic dosing cup with every prescription I fill, I’m going to throw it at him.   

To have the specter of an entire industry, a whole country’s economy (Portugal), an ecological wonder like the cork oak forests that can actually support both human needs and the natural environment, just disappearing to save a few cents per wine bottle, is very sad. 

So what happens if we believe the bologna sandwich being fed to us that the demand for cork is declining?  Ooh, maybe they’ll clear all that forest land to make room for more cattle-grazing, so we can stuff ourselves with more hamburgers!  Hey, what a super idea.  (Not.)

Here’s my homage to the lovely cork:

  1. It’s impervious to gases and liquids
  2. It’s also a little bit absorbent, which makes it great for coasters & trivets
  3. It’s lightweight
  4. It floats
  5. It resists rotting
  6. It looks great
  7. It absorbs sound
  8. It’s good for thermal insulation too
  9. It can be made into flooring and wallcoverings
  10. It’s soft and cushy on your feet, and it’s used to make shoes
  11. Not only shoes, but now clothing! Yes, clothing: http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/cork-clothing-gets-fashionable
  12. It’s renewable (they just shave it off the trees and it grows back, over and over again)
  13. It’s biodegradable
  14. It’s flexible and durable
  15. It’s fire-resistant
  16. You can save your corks and make something crafty with them
  17. Check out these great little tables designed by Jasper Morrison made of cork by Vitra: 

But for all the really incredible uses there are for cork, the vast majority of it is used for wine bottle stoppers.  If the wine industry says bye bye to cork stoppers, it’s bye bye cork.

Here’s some more info on the mighty cork: http://www.cork.pt/   http://www.greenlivingonline.com/article/green-myth-buster-1-cork-endangered  and of course: http://www.wwf.panda.org/

So, wine industry, spare me the bullshit that no one wants cork anymore.  You made that up to save a few bucks.  And stop trying to tell me that plastic stoppers and screw-caps are better for the wine.  What I want is a list of winemakers that only use cork stoppers, so I can consciously choose to support the cork industry, otherwise, I might have to start ripping the foil off the bottles to check first before I buy.  I really don’t want to have to do that.

HGTV Got Nothin’ On Me

That was my husband’s motto when we purchased our 40-year old house.  We had become adept at ripping up old carpets, painting walls and doors, and had even replaced our wood deck all by ourselves, so we were feeling pretty confident about our abilities to care for and maintain our home.

We did respect our limits however.  Truth be told, we’re not really do-it-yourselfers, and since I’m an interior designer, I have a healthy understanding of what “DIY-gone-wrong” looks like, so I know when to stop and say “let me call so-and-so.” 

Be that as it may, there are some things that my husband and I were determined to be able to do on our own.  First, for our own satisfaction and pride that we could pull off some true handiness when push came to shove, and second, because even though I have a rolodex filled with competent trades people, they don’t work for free (nor should they) and they get annoyed with too many requests for “just-one-more-thing-it’s-really-small-it’ll-only-take-like-15-minutes.”  Even with me smiling my most fabulous smile and promising ice cream cones, I know when to back off, unless it’s an emergency.  Anyway…

So, we’re happily living in our new abode, replacing cabinet knobs and making plans to renovate this and that, and we notice these tiny little flies in our Master Bathroom shower stall.  Every day there were a few more.  Not a swarming mass like the Amityville Horror or anything, but gradually becoming more prevalent.  Where are these flies coming from? We asked each other.  A friend of ours mentioned that they were sewer flies, probably coming up from the drain.  Eeew, what?!   

Now, I’m not that squeamish, really.  At least by south Florida standards, anyway.  We live in the hot, humid, sub-tropics, where everything is alive, if you know what I mean.  There’s a certain amount of getting-used-to-the-critters that one must become accustomed to here if you want to live a carefree life.  So when I see lizards, ants, and other assorted bugs roaming around my house, I shoo them out or squash them without a second thought and move on. (Though I have been known to wake my husband in the wee hours of the night to kill a palmetto bug, because, man, those things are big, and I don’t like being stared at while I’m getting the shoe ready.)

But sewer flies in my shower had me freaked out.  Not knowing what action to take, we ignored them for a few more days.  And then one Saturday I left to attend a friend’s baby shower.  On my way home, I called my husband to let him know I was on my way back, and I got this:

“Honey, don’t be mad, but I started a project.”

Oh God, I thought.  “What did you do, honey?”

“Well, I figured out where the flies were coming from.”  Yikes!  He continued, “It seems that some of the shower curb tiles were loose so I pulled them off, and it was teeming with worms underneath.  So I ripped off all the tiles from the curb.”  He sounded vaguely satisfied.  I, however, was feeling the hairs on the back of my neck stand up, and picturing my bathroom covered in worms.

“Uh, so, what’s it look like now?” I asked cautiously.

“Oh, it’s fine.  Don’t worry; I cleaned up all the worms, so you wouldn’t have to see that.”  Did I mention how much I love my husband?  “But, you have a tile project on your hands now.”  Wait, what did I just say?

Okay, I thought, I can handle this.  It’s just a few tiles, no big deal.  I’m a highly educated person; I work in the construction industry, how hard can it be?  Plus, I have friends with skills if I get into trouble.  I can do this!!!

The situation didn’t look as bad as I imagined when I finally got home, but the wall board below the tile had rotted out, so I had to replace that too.  After consulting with my tile guy, I got some concrete board scraps, bought some thin set and grout, a few trowels, a grout float/sponge thing, and headed off to the home improvement store with a piece of old tile so I could match it to the new tiles I needed.  The store even cut my tiles for me (though they don’t do that anymore.  Boo.).  I headed home with all my equipment and prepared myself mentally and physically to rebuild and tile a shower curb.

And you know what?  It turned out just fine.  I did it!  All by myself.  I installed the concrete board, back-buttered the tiles, spaced them out just right, saved the other tiles that were still in place, grouted it like a pro, and nary a fly has been seen in my bathroom since.  Thank you very much.

The space between me and my limits got a little larger that day.

The Dirt on Area Rugs

My Interview with Linda Murillo- founder of Lilypads Creations

Area rugs have always been an important element within the interiors I design.  They bring color, pattern, texture, and warmth to a room.  They anchor and provide grounding for furniture groupings, which helps to define large, open plan spaces.  An area rug can be the focal point of a room or the perfect background piece upon which other furnishings shine.  There are many different materials and weaving methods for rugs, but my favorites are always visually lush, soft and squishy on the feet, and invite you to sit on the floor.  It’s my fervent professional opinion that every home should have spaces where you can comfortably sit and hang out on the floor.

Whenever I’m working on an interiors project and it comes time to design and select the area rugs, I call Linda Murillo of Lilypads Creations in Miami, Florida.  She specializes in designing and creating area rugs, and graciously answered all of the questions I threw at her.

TJD:   Hi Linda! Please give me the Lilypads Creations backstory.  What is your background and how did you get started producing area rugs?

LM: I have been interested in textiles and fibers since I can remember.  I studied commercial art in college and worked in other creative venues for many years.  I had an opportunity to live in Costa Rica and needed area rugs in my home.  An artist friend introduced me to a hand-tufted manufacturer who took my paintings and turned them into area rugs.  When I moved to Miami, the rugs became a visual focal point in my home and often the center of conversation.  At that point, I decided to pursue a business designing and offering my custom area rugs to the interior design industry.

TJD:   What are the most common area rug constructions and rug materials?

LM: It depends very much on where the rugs are going.  Hand-knotted wool and wool and silk are very popular for residences and commercial lobby areas. They have a great look and feel.  Hand-tufted wool rugs remain popular as well, and are often used for high traffic commercial spaces, children’s and family rooms.  They are great looking, durable, and easy to maintain.  For contemporary spaces we produce endless types of textures.  From chunky felted wools to delicate handwovens.

  

TJD:   What are some of the more unusual or little known materials that are being used for rugs today and what are their properties?

LM:  Some of the new materials are banana silk, aloe, linen, and alpaca.  These are not necessarily new materials, but old materials used in a new way in area rugs.  Surprisingly, most of the materials we use at Lilypads are the traditional materials which have been used in textiles for centuries.  They tend to be the ones which are the most beautiful and practical.  An example is the wool which is used in Nepalese rugs.  The sheep are grazed at such a high altitude that the wool has a high percentage of lanolin.  This lanolin is a natural stain guard and fire protector.

TJD:   Padding vs. No Padding- When is it appropriate to not use padding and when is it definitely recommended?

 LM:  I always recommend using padding on thin pile rugs to add softness and small size rugs so they do not move. Thick shags usually do not need a pad as they are soft and heavy enough not to move. 

TJD:  What types of padding are best for stone floors, wood floors, and tile floors?

LM:  We recommend the same “natural” latex padding for most projects because it is good for various floor surfaces and rugs and the least synthetic in its production.

TJD:  Shag rugs are still so popular.  They’re fun and inviting, but how do you clean a shag rug?

LM:  Yes, shags give a great look.  Usually a shag gives a field of color with subtle texture.  This look works great for many design styles.  Cleaning depends on the type of shag.  Routine cleaning is usually done with the beater bar of the vacuum turned off so you get a suction pulling dirt from the rug. You do not want a vacuum which rotates on top of the shag.  It will shred it.  Any rug should be periodically professionally cleaned by a recommended rug cleaner.

TJD:  Which rug materials are best suited to the heavy abuse and wear dished out by kids and pets?

LM:  Wool is one of the most durable fibers.  People often come to me looking for a nylon or a sisal rug which they perceive to be more practical.  I am not a big fan of sisals, although I love the natural look.  They feel hard on bare feet to walk and sit on, and absorb rather than repel stains, making spills impossible to get out. How a rug looks and how long it lasts usually comes down to the care of the rug.  Whether a rug is nylon or silk, if your child drops a juice box on the rug, you need to get it up right away. 

TJD:  The commercial carpet industry has done a lot to move carpet manufacturing closer to a closed loop system of recycling old materials to make new carpets, lowering VOC’s with different dyes and adhesives, and having carpets recycled again at the end of their life span.  What are you seeing happen (if anything) in the residential area rug industry to make rugs more “green” in terms of earth-friendly materials and social/corporate responsibility for the people that actually make the rugs?  Is there a “fair trade” movement going on in the rug business (similar to fair trade coffee and other artisanal trades)?

LM:  At Lilypads we have focused on the aspect of fair labor practices in our manufacturing. Many of our manufacturers are in third world countries.  There are various organizations which oversee the rug industry to use good employment policies, such as not employing children and regulating the hours people work.  Several of our manufacturers have schools which are incorporated into the factories for the children of the employees.

As far as materials go, we use mostly natural materials.  Our manufacturers in South and Central America work with local indigenous tribes to source and process materials in a way which is beneficial to them and their environments.   We are always striving for the most effective methods of processing for our planet.

TJD:  What is the most important thing people should consider when buying area rugs?

LM:  Machine-tufted rugs can be a great alternative for custom area rugs.  They tend to be less expensive because the rugs are made by a machine rather than by hand.  Often machine-tufted rugs are overall textures or designs rather than free-hand designs. They can be custom-colored and sized so you have the advantage of getting what is needed for the space, great quality, great pricing, and sometimes in less time. 

You have to get the size and design right, but if the color is not correct with the other design elements in the room, the rug will not add to the feeling of the room.  Color is key!

TJD:  Thank you, Linda! Check out the great color combinations of these rugs Linda and I worked on together.

hand-knotted wool rug   machine-tufted wool- multicolored stripe rug

VOC’s- Smell that chemical cocktail

Once upon a time, when I was a young designer fresh out of school, I started working in an office furniture dealership.  Day in and day out, I sat in a large warehouse-style building with no windows (except for the fixed glass storefront) amongst a large collection of new office chairs, tables and bookcases, and panel systems furniture.  I noticed a terribly strong smell, something akin to “new car smell” times ten, and every day by around lunch time, I was nauseous and fighting a splitting headache.

Little did I know I was having my first major run-in with volatile organic compounds: VOC’s.  I wouldn’t hear that term for many years to come, but though I had no name for it, it was obvious to me what it was.  All that newly minted furniture was off-gassing.  All the chemicals and solvents used in their manufacturing were evaporating into the air around me.  I was breathing them in and smelling them, and it was making me sick.

After a few weeks, the nausea and headaches disappeared.  I guess my body got used to it.  No more problem, right?  Um, no.  Not quite.  Our bodies are pretty amazing instruments.  They can take a lot of abuse and are very adaptable, but just because your body has figured out a way to process whatever is assaulting it (be it too much food, alcohol, sunlight, chemical compounds, whatever), and you don’t perceive it directly through your senses so much, doesn’t mean these factors are no longer there.  Sometimes your body hits the proverbial wall and reacts in ways that can’t be ignored and that’s when you know something is a) definitely wrong, and b) needs to change. 

But until then, we put up with a lot, and we’re conditioned not to be alarmed.  For instance, appreciating “new car smell,” not believing that laundry is truly clean unless it smells like bleach, the smell of a freshly painted room as a sign of newness and a healthy space, the use of plug-in air fresheners and fabric sprays and believing that the smell of flowers coming from an aerosol can means there are actually flowers in there, and my personal pet peeve: baby cologne.  What is that about?  As if the smell of a freshly bathed little baby needs improvement or camouflage?

Many people still don’t know what VOC’s are and/or don’t equate them with something harmful, because their bodies haven’t hit that wall yet.  A friend of mine from Jamaica says they have a saying there: “if you can’t hear it, you’ve got to feel it.”  Nothing beats personal experience.  Just ask anybody affected by the Chinese drywall problem here in Florida (and elsewhere) if they know what VOC’s are.  I’m sure they are very clear about the definition now compared to just a few short years ago.

Back in the early nineties, I worked with a client that was chemically sensitive to formaldehyde and asked us to design two wardrobe cabinets using wood without formaldehyde in it.  That wasn’t easy back then.  The cabinetmaker had to search high and low to find the lumber, and it was very expensive.  I admit, we were skeptical about her sensitivity claims and there was a lot of pooh-poohing going on (which was exacerbated with the demand that the interior width of the drawers had to correspond exactly to the widths of her husband’s shirts when folded and placed side by side in rows of three!  This appears on my list of Kooky Client Requests.), but we managed to get it done and she was happy.  The point is we have so many choices, good choices, now for building products and interior finishes and furnishings that emit low or no VOC’s; paint, carpet, fabrics, furniture, glue and adhesives, caulking, cleaning products.  The manufacturers and producers are making the shift, slowly but surely, and designers and architects are coming around too, but it comes down to a matter of the consumer knowing they have a choice and exercising it.  Ask your building contractors and designers for environmentally-friendly and non-toxic products.  Tell them of your interest and your concerns, and show that you value your health and the health of your loved ones.  Don’t wait for a health crisis.  The supply is growing, it’s time to start asserting the demand, and hopefully soon environmentally safe and non-toxic furnishings will be commonplace.

Moxie by Proxy Project Profile

I recently completed a Moxie by Proxy Master Bathroom design for a married couple living on the Treasure Coast of Florida.  Their personal life is centered on family gatherings, boating and fishing.  The Master Bathroom sorely needed updating.  It’s dark, the countertops are too low, the cabinetry and fixtures outdated, storage inadequate; you get the picture.  Here’s the picture:

  

Along with describing the colors and styles they were most drawn to, the wife also presented me with this favorite object, and expressed how she wanted to feel in her most private of spaces: serene, welcome, and calm.

Plus, they had the additional practical consideration of sharing the bathroom with their cat, which meant they needed to accommodate the litter box in the space (Stinky and messy certainly don’t contribute to the goals of serene and welcome!).

After multiple conversations discussing the room function, the budget, favorite colors and materials, measurements and details, I created a package for them to renovate their bathroom.

 

Some of the highlights: water-saving faucets, a low-consumption toilet, energy-efficient lighting, a reclaimed teak makeup stool, low VOC paint, a natural shell mirror, natural quartz countertops, porcelain tiles and glass mosaic tiles for the floors, a built-in makeup vanity, and a storage cabinet in place of an obsolete door.  And, not to be forgotten, a really cool, modern, and enclosed litter box for the Queen Cat herself. 

ModKat Litter box  (This is someone else’s cat.)

They now have a complete road map, with instructions, drawings, and selections, to remodel their bathroom.  Here are some of the couple’s comments:

“When I received the final package and looked through all the different elements, I was truly amazed by so many things.  The color was right, the fixtures were perfect, and the movement of necessities was spot on.  There were more things to take in than I could have even begun to dream of.   I really felt that Tammy listened to me and sorted out what was at the core of what I was looking to achieve.  She understood the essence of what I had to say and translated it perfectly.  The best thing about Moxie by Proxy is that the plans are laid out so easily.  All the information you need to execute what you want is presented in a fashion that is easy to read and understand.  What can I say, I am in Love!  Can’t wait to do the Kitchen!”

Why did I create Moxie by Proxy?  Sometimes you need a good map to get where you’re going on your own, along with really great advice from an experienced tour guide, but don’t have the desire or the budget to have that tour guide personally accompany you on your journey.  You deserve a good trip too, and confidence that you won’t be stuck in a swamp somewhere spinning your wheels and swatting mosquitoes.

The 5-Second Rule…and Beyond

First impressions count.  We’ve all heard this cliché.  It’s a cliché because it’s so very universally true.  But it’s not only about the type of impression you make on others, it’s also about the impressions that people, places, and things make on you.  “Follow your instincts,” “trust your gut;” why are these common phrases so alien to us that we need to be constantly reminded to do what’s natural?

The bottom line is if it takes you longer than five seconds to decide if you like something, then you don’t like it.  It’s that simple.

Don’t force it.  Whether it’s a piece of furniture, a paint color, a tile, a faucet, or a pair of shoes, it should feel good, real, right, inexplicably correct, authentic and calming. 

Ah, I’ve found you.

If you have to convince yourself of any of those feelings, then you’re trying too hard and creating tension for yourself.  Let it go.

Of course, it doesn’t end there.  Not for me, anyway.  That’s just the first step.  I’m a designer, and so I respect your emotional reaction, but I want to know why.  Why do you feel that way?  I want to get into your head and understand what makes you tick, what attracts you and what repels you.  Can you pinpoint it?  It could take some soul-digging, and memory-searching, but it’s worth it. 

Just as songs and smells and certain places remind us of long lost loves, past tragedies or embarrassments, and childhood insecurities, so too do colors, shapes, patterns, and even furniture styles.

Does that shade of green remind you of the wallpaper you had in your room as a child that you hated?

  Designer: Hey, look at this fabulous shade of green.

                You: I hate green.

Designer: Why?

     You:  I don’t know, I just do.

Designer: You’ve got to give me more to work with than that!  Tell me about your childhood.

You: Mom always made me eat pea soup, which I didn’t like.  It was gritty and had chunks of ham fat floating in it, and she wouldn’t let me leave the table until I choked it down.  Then while I was away for a sleepover once, she redecorated my room and papered one of the walls the same color green as that awful soup.  I tried to get her to take it out, but she refused.  So not only did I have to endure eating something I hated; now I had to look at it all the time as well!

Designer: Okay.  Now I get it.  You were not able to control how your room looked, and it reminded you of something else you couldn’t control: eating something yucky.

Therefore, unconsciously, Green  =  powerlessness.

Does a tufted leather chesterfield sofa remind you of your grandfather and the flavor of pipe tobacco he liked best?

Restoration Hardware Kensington Chesterfield Sofa

                You: Oh, I love this chesterfield sofa!

Designer: Really, why?

You: When I was little I stayed with my grandparents during the summers, and they had a chesterfield sofa in their den.  Every afternoon, my grandfather would let me sit on his lap while he smoked his pipe and read the paper.  I remember smelling his pipe tobacco and dozing off and feeling so comfortable.

Therefore, chesterfield sofas  =  comfort, family, affection, security

Identifying your emotional response to something is like a signal, a key to a lock, a sentinel at the gate.  Understanding where it came from clears a path- for you and also for everyone in your life that needs to communicate with you.  When you understand why you really like what you like, it’s easier to surround yourself and populate your life with more of That, whatever That is for you.

May your week be filled with more chesterfields and less pea soup.

No Excuses

Thoughts for the day- Earth Day:

A couple of days ago, I watched a show on the Science Channel about the first moon landing.  It was called First on the Moon: The Untold Story.  In it, I learned that the astronauts inadvertently broke a little control switch that just so happened to be the switch that turned on the engines of the landing module, without which they would not be able to take off from the moon and get home.  So, what happened?  Buzz Aldrin used a ballpoint pen to fix it.  In our modern-day parlance, he MacGyver’d it.

That got me thinking….

If Buzz Aldrin can jimmie the engines on the first lunar landing module with a ballpoint pen (!), then:

  • Replacing your light bulbs with compact fluorescent bulbs, or better yet, LED fixtures?  Simple.  Do it.  No excuses.  Compact fluorescents are readily available in home improvement stores and even local grocery stores.  LED’s are still a bit more of a specialty item right now, but they are worth the search and the price.  They don’t have mercury in them, they don’t get hot, and the life of the bulb is, well, mind-bogglingly long.

 

  • Recycling?  Easy as 1-2-3. Reducing and Re-using?  Well worth it.

Imagine for a moment that the garbage man didn’t exist….if no one ever came to pick up your trash, what would you do?  Where would it go?  Would you be more inclined to think carefully about your consumption and your disposability habits?  Every piece of plastic wrapping, Styrofoam packaging, tin foil, yogurt cups, milk jugs, diapers, tissues, napkins, and junk mail, plastic bags and baggies, chicken bones, blister packs and plastic-coated twisty-ties, those little thingamajigs that the dry cleaner uses to hold the shirt sleeves together on a freshly pressed shirt (I asked my dry cleaner, by the way, and they will take those back and reuse them.  Same with wire hangers.), the dreaded toy packaging that requires a hacksaw and scissors to open, and the plastic toys in them, etc. etc.  The list goes on and on.  How lucky and totally spoiled we are that all we have to do is put our crap in a bag and someone comes and takes it away!  We don’t even know where it goes, and unfortunately, some people don’t care.

Well, a few guided meditations on how your house, street, and neighborhood would look if trash pickup didn’t exist, and it doesn’t take long to start looking at your throwaways in a whole new light.

My city started a program called single-stream recycling. (http://www.broward.org/waste/allinone.htm)  No more separating paper, plastic, glass, metal, whatever.  All of it goes into one single recycle bin.  Easy as a Sunday morning.  What kind of recycling program does your city and/or county participate in?  Not sure?  Ask.  If they don’t have one, demand it.  Or you could kindly explain to your city government at the next council meeting that their mothers don’t work there, and ask them just what century they’re living in.  In the nicest possible way, of course; good manners are important.

  • Washing all your laundry in cold water?  Are you kidding me with this?  A total no-brainer.  Just set it once and never think of it again.   Since I began using cold water and non-chlorine bleach for all my laundry, everything turns out brighter and doesn’t get worn out so fast.  And hey, I’m saving money on my electric bill by reducing the amount of water heating.  I like saving money, don’t you?

 

  • Turning off the water while brushing your teeth?  Puleeze.  Seriously.  Buzz Aldrin fixed a spaceship with a pen.  A pen, people!  Turn off the water.

 

  • Bringing your own bags to the grocery store?  A cakewalk.  Save a plastic tree and bring your own bags.  Embarrassed by your mish-mosh of odd-sized tote bags?  Check out these super stylish ones from Baggu.  Here’s my secret tip to making this into a firmly entrenched habit:  keep them in your car at all times.  I’ve also found that one must be quick at the checkout line to keep the bag boys from robotically loading your stuff into the dreaded evil plastic bags.  My reusable bags are the first thing on the conveyor belt, and I announce it to the cashier and the bag boy, “I have my own bags.”  It felt weird at first, and totally flummoxed the baggers.  They had no idea how to fill them properly, but they got the hang of it, and I feel really righteous.

These tips are, of course, the very least that everyone should be doing and can do easily.  These things aren’t hard.  Fixing spaceship engines with a pen – that is, I think, the definition of hard

There are so many more steps we can all take, little by little, to reduce our consumption, save energy, save our money, and stick it to the Man.   It just takes a little bit of conscious effort, and the realization that all the choices we make affect everyone, not just ourselves.

If not us, who?  If not now, when?

Small Changes, Big Difference

This has been a busy spring for me, personally and professionally.  Now that our unusually cold (for Florida, anyway) winter has ended, the weather has been so breathtakingly gorgeous, it’s been difficult to plunk myself down in front of the computer.  I just want to be outside! 

Spring is a time of renewal, rebirth, rejuvenation, activity, energy, goal-setting, and cleaning out the closets.  I also discovered (or perhaps, rediscovered is a better word) something else, about myself, my home, and houseplants.

I rearranged the furniture in my Family Room.  I’m not normally prone to doing that unless there’s a good reason, and my good reason this time was my sister’s bridal shower which I hosted in March.  Is your Family Room like mine?  The television is the great big warm sun, and all the furniture in the room are subordinate little satellites, bowing to the TV gods and thanking them for their mere existence.

I also bought some flowering houseplants to use as party décor.  This was after spending two hours roaming the aisles of the local party superstore in complete disgust.  Did they have cute, pretty, colorful decorations?  Yes, they did.  However, all I could think about was, what am I going to do with all that plastic, non-compostable, non-biodegradable junk after the party is over?  Store it forever in my already overfilled closets and/or garage?  Throw it out?  Most of that stuff is not even recyclable.  So, I bought simple white, eco-friendly paper plates and napkins and made the decision that I would decorate with plants. 

With the bridal shower about to begin, I realized that TV-watching was not the priority for the room, so I angled my sofa and angled the lounge chair and ottoman directly opposite the sofa.  It worked great for the shower, because everyone was able to converse and interact in an all-inclusive manner.  It wasn’t until a few days later that something amazing happened.

Now that the TV isn’t the main focal point of the room, the energy moving through the space has completely changed- for the better!  It’s a palpable, positive flow.  The Family Room feels bigger, and more inviting.   Everyone can still watch TV comfortably, but I swear: my kids are fighting less.  Seriously.  Weird, but true.  And bringing plants back into my house, after many years of self-imposed exile, has heightened this sense of living, dynamic energy as well.  When my children were toddlers I was petrified they would nibble on the houseplants and poison themselves, so I got rid of them.  Thankfully, they are past that stage, and I’ve eagerly summoned my inner gardener once again.  I’m babying the plants like newborn puppies; checking that they have enough water, moving them around to catch the right amount of sunlight.  What a welcome and unexpected transformation.

What have I learned from this series of small changes?

  • There is always more than one way to arrange a room
  • A simple change of direction can dramatically change the ambience and feel of a space, even if you don’t buy anything new
  • It took an outside force ~ the catalyst of a party ~ to realize I was in a rut with my furniture layout.  I’ve been looking at my house with new eyes and eager dreams ever since.
  • It’s time to stop creating shrines to the television.
  • Houseplants are awesome.  I didn’t realize how much I missed them. (Though I will say that azaleas seem to need an awful lot of water or they get droopy really quick.  I don’t think they’re hardy enough to handle the climate I’m in, so the azalea will have to stay in a pot in my house.  But peace lilies and orchids seem to be pretty carefree.)
  • And lastly, small changes can make a big difference- to not only your house, but your health, your attitude, and your family vibes.

Try something new that’s been nudging you for a while and leave a comment.  How did it go?  What did you notice?